Showing posts with label sugar cravings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sugar cravings. Show all posts

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Learn How to Say NO to Yourself


Have you ever taken a young child to a grocery store and heard them relentlessly ask you to buy them lots of sweet stuff? "Hey, can I have that Snickers bar?" "Hey, I want a doughnut!" It could go on and on. It's especially bad in the checkout aisle, where the stores strategically place all of the little candies and gums that are just the right size for little ones to grab and eat.

Well, today I was in the checkout aisle and saw an assortment of Mrs. Fields Cookies (yum!) all in a row. They had snickerdoodles and peanut butter cookies, but the one that caught my eye is the original chocolate chip cookie that Mrs. Fields is famous for.

The debate in my head was like the cartoon scenario with an angel perched on one shoulder and a devil on the other. Devil said: "Mmmm, that looks good, that would hit the spot right now. Angel: "Yeah, but all that sugar will make you crash." Devil: "Maybe, maybe not. But it sure looks good. Look at those gooey chocolate chips on the packaging. Could just melt in your mouth." Angel: "You don't need it."

I could have gone either way and it didn't really matter what I did in that moment. It only cost 59 cents and it wouldn't have sent me on an overeating sugar binge or anything like that. But something in me felt like it was important for me to practice saying no to myself.

There is so much instant gratification in our society. I think it's healthy to practice saying no to ourselves so we learn that we don't need to leave the store with a treat each time and that we are not entitled to something sweet just because we see something that looks good.

The obesity rate is climbing in the U.S. The last Wall Street Journal story I read said that one third of our country's adults are obese and one half are overweight. Can we do something about it? Yeah! Don't put in your mouth everything that looks good in the moment. Hold back and practice self-control and discipline. Being able to say no to your impulses to eat is the key to ending overeating and weight loss because it won't just be a one-time thing, but a pattern you develop that will effect you every day of your life.

To check out free chapters from the book Stop Overeating Today!, visit: http://www.stopovereatingtips.com

Monday, April 26, 2010

Book Excerpt from Stop Overeating Today! - FIVE NEW Strategies to Eat Less

Is overeating something you struggle with? Do you need some fresh tips to motivate you to make healthy changes? Look no further. These five strategies will give you a lot to work with because they are designed to apply to a variety of situations in which overeating occurs - at home, restaurants, and at work. They are short so you can easily remember and apply them. Need more support? Leave a comment and I will respond.

I am a life coach and work with clients to help them solve their overeating problems. I have gone from a size 12 to a 4 and, believe me, I know what it's like to feel like you've hit a wall, to self-sabatoge, and to get discouraged. Hit me up with a comment and I will be happy to help.

1! Get your hand out of the bag! If you're going to eat some chips or something that comes in a bag, don't just grab the bag, sit down on the coach, and start munching. Try putting the food you want in a bowl or on a plate and then putting the bag away. That way, you won't unintentionally overeat and consume excess calories. Same thing goes for ice cream. Don't eat ice cream out of the carton. If you do, the spoon may hit the bottom of the container before you realize what's happening. Try putting ice cream in a bowl and then the carton back into the freezer.

2! Visualize yourself doing the right thing. If you're feeling tempted to overeat and you don't want to, try visualizing yourself doing something else. For example, if you're craving ice cream but don't want to give in, come up with something else you can do. If you want to treat yourself, why not do something else like go for a nice walk outside or curl up in bed with a book? Picture yourself, step by step, like you're watching yourself in a movie, getting outside for that walk. Where will you walk to? What will you see? What do you need to grab so you're ready to go? Visualize putting on your walking shoes and coat in crystal clear detail. If you prefer the curl up in bed with a book option, what book will you read? Will you put on your pajamas and get comfortable? Visualize the whole thing. Now, instead of visualizing silky ice cream sliding down your throat, you've replaced it with new enticing images that will make you happy and fulfill you in other ways.

3! Box half of your restaurant meal. Most restaurant entrees have over 800 calories and leave you feeling stuffed and uncomfortable if the entire meal. If you habitually eat out and finish off the meal, it's easy to put on an extra 10, 15, or more pounds. We've all heard the advice to box half of your restaurant meal so you don't eat the whole thing. Here's a new twist. Ask the waiter to bring half of your meal already boxed when he or she brings out the food. Then, take the box, and stick it under the table by your feet so you won't see it. Out of sight, out of mind. Now you won't feel tempted to start picking at it when your meal is done. And you have lunch for tomorrow!

4! Take your after dinner conversation away from the table. You're at a dinner party or you are having guests over for dinner. You enjoy a great meal together, have some dessert, and keep chatting away at the table. There's still some mashed potatoes left and some extra brownies from dessert. So, you pick it. A little potatoes here, a little chunk of brownies here. Before you know it, you've eaten an extra two brownies, piece by piece, and an extra serving of potatoes, completely unintentionally! Next time to avoid that problem, suggest going into the living room to continue the conversation. Getting away from the food will save you from consuming extra calories you don't want or need.

5! Remember your worth is not derived from cleaning your plate. Were you raised as a kid to believe that you were only good if you finished everything on your plate? Don't place all the blame on your parents. They were probably raised that way, too. Lots of kids have been trained to eat everything, even after they are full. They are also trained that if they eat everything, only then can they get dessert. Flash forward to adulthood. Lots of adults are still holding onto that belief that they have to finish what they have left on their plates, but it's not true. Stop when you're full. Throw it out if you don't want to finish it, or put it in the fridge for later. Even if it's just two bites. You are not a human vacuum cleaner that needs to take care of scraps. Give yourself permission to rewrite the rules and not finish everything, even if you think eating a little extra won't hurt. A little extra calories every day leads to a lot of extra pounds over time.

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Sunday, March 21, 2010

Make a list...take a chance...make a change

Ha ha! I'm feeling kind of cheesy today so my title comes from a Kelly Clarkson song. I love singing and I'm a huge music lover, so almost any phrase, such as, "make a change" will trigger some song in my head.

The change I'm blogging about today is about switching from processed sugar to natural sugars. WHAT?!? You may be thinking. I'm not suggesting doing this FOREVER, just giving it a chance next time you are craving something sweet. This is easy, comes in 3 steps. Here goes:

1) Make a list of all of your favorite naturally sweet foods. Mine includes: agave nectar (nothing better!), figs, dates, bananas, orange juice (not from concentrate), apple juice (not from concentrate), mangos, and ripe strawberries (if they are too early they are sour - no thanks).

2) Go buy a couple of these sweet treats this week when you're out grocery shopping.

3) Next time you crave something sweet, have one of these foods FIRST and then if you are still craving processed sugars later and you want to give in, at least you can credit yourself with something healthy first.

My bet is that many of you will stop after the natural sugar. Give it a shot, then comment with your feedback!

Friday, February 19, 2010

I'm Joining Ellen Degeneres on Her Quit Sugar Campaign

I gave up sugar in '05 for health reasons & here I go again! Sugar is an easy emotional/physical pick-me-up & there are better alternatives that won’t send me crashing & craving. I have a tiring schedule, a demanding baby & my own business.

My tip is from my book, Stop Overeating Today. Visualize It: If you crave sugar, try this exercise. Let's say ice cream is calling your name. Don’t you deserve something special? Ask yourself: What else can I do besides eating sugar that will be just as rewarding? Hmm...Relaxing in bed with a good book! Visualize it as if you were watching yourself. With crystal clear detail, picture standing up & walking away from the freezer. Visualize taking each step towards your bedroom, pulling your book from under your bed, flopping down onto your comforter, & opening up to the page you left off on. Imagine how good it feels to lose yourself in the book & relax. Now that you have a plan, you just need to fulfill it, like a programmed robot. This strategy works because once you’ve visualized it, your brain believes it’s possible & you feel motivated & empowered to make it a reality.

How it's going for me? I'm addicted to sugar so the first couple weeks are detox. I stopped buying sugary treats at the store, even for my hubby (sorry honey!) When he buys ice cream, he hides it in the back of the freezer so I won't notice. Sometimes I feel like pulling my hair out, but as soon as I can go ten days, usually I'm craving free.