Showing posts with label diet. Show all posts
Showing posts with label diet. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Erroneous Beliefs - Do YOU Have Any?

I was talking to a client the other day and she said something that just didn't sit right with me. We were talking about eating healthy and she said she hadn't been. But this is the part that really got me. She said because she wasn't eating healthy, she didn't deserve to buy this healthy water she liked that gave her more energy and helped her feel better.

Basically, her logic was this: If I'm not eating healthy, I don't deserve to feel good. That right there is an erroneous belief. It's all-or-nothing thinking. It's like someone saying, "Because I haven't been sticking to my diet, I'm not going to buy vegetables, I'm just going to eat more cake."

Do you have any of these erroneous beliefs? Do you fall into the trap of all-or-nothing thinking? I want to hear your erroneous beliefs.

After you've identified what they are, the next step is to change them. My client's new belief could be: "Because I haven't been sticking to my diet I am going to buy the healthy water to motivate me and remind me what it's like to feel good."

What's your erroneous belief and how can you change it?

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To read 4 tips from the Book Stop Overeating Today, visit: http://www.stopovereatingtips.com

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Stop Overeating Today! Book Q & A



Q: What makes this book any different from the thousands of other books about weight loss and diets?

A: This book has nothing to do with diets. I'm not a big fan of them because, in my mind, to diet means to deprive. What makes this book different is that the tips are straightforward and easy to read and apply. You could pick it up and read anywhere for just 2 minutes and find something useful you can apply the next time you eat. The tips are easy to remember. The tone of the book is conversational and fun. I wrote the book as a peer, not as a doctor or a professional dietitian or psychologist. I actually used these tips to help me overcome my overeating problem. I know they work. These tips are not arbitrary. They are supported, tested, and proven.

Q: Why did you write this book?

A: After recovering from an eating disorder in 2001, I wanted to help people do the same. I was a mentor in a recovery support group and noticed that overeating was a common problem for a lot of girls. Later, I became a life coach and when I talked with people about eating issues, discovered they wanted ideas for ways to stop overeating. Since I have struggled with overeating in the past, I wanted to share strategies that worked for me.

Q: What is your favorite tip?

A: Tip #10, which talks about how to stop emotional eating by using a self-coaching method called "The Work of Byron Katie". I learned this method at Byron Katie's coaching school and discovered it works for any negative emotion: stress, anger, fear, hurt, you name it. You basically ask yourself a series of 4 questions, which help you start thinking rationally and to separate yourself from stressful emotions. After you can see yourself more objectively, you can make a healthier and less impulsive decision. It sounds like a long process, but you can successfully go through this self-coaching method in less than 10 seconds. To learn more visit http://www.thework.com.

Q: What additional products or services will you offer to complement the book?

A: Everyone who buys the book is offered a free 15 minute phone coaching session, to help them apply the tips in the book to them personally. If they find that beneficial, they are free to sign up for more phone coaching. My rates are currently $100/hr.

Q: How long did it take you to write the book?

A: I worked on it off and on for the last two years, and pretty consistently since September '08.

Q: When will be book be for sale?

A: That depends. If you buy it on my website it will be available in about 10 days. On Amazon it will be available in about 25 days. Can't wait!

Saturday, June 27, 2009

How to stop lying to yourself


We all do this. We justify, "it's the weekend so what I eat doesn't count." Really? I wish that were the case. I'm not saying to not have fun every once and a while and enjoy some highly caloric tasty food, but as long as we aren't in denial about it.

But it's not just happening on the weekend. Any special occasion fits the bill. And the more we justify to ourselves, the more we look for reasons to say today is a special occasion too because we are celebrating XYZ.

I found a really good article that talks about this "Weekend Warrior" mindset and 3 other common excuses we feed ourselves.
http://www.pr-inside.com/guilt-free-eating-and-the-four-known-r1347393.htm

The article's solution is some pricey diet program. I'm not a fan of diets. My solution is Tip # 10 in my upcoming book, Stop Overeating Today! Mine won't cost you $100+. And it will work for you every day of your life. It will show you how to catch a lie you are believing, and how to untwist it into the truth. Then, it shows you that the truth ain't that bad because it helps you get what you really want.

I'll admit, sometimes I really do want the doughnut. I'm not in denial about that.